Archive for March 19th, 2008

Why Obama?

OBCIf you haven’t read, word for word, or watched – from start to finish – Barack Obama’s speech from March 18, 2008, I urge you to do so. You may like John McCain, Hillary Clinton or even our current president. It really doesn’t matter who you like for November. What does matter is that you sit down and spend 30 minutes reading or listening to the words of someone who gets it…who gets America; someone who understands you, your neighbor, the janitor and STILL believes that through it all, there’s room to cross the chasms that exist among us.

An excerpt:

Or, at this moment, in this election, we can come together and say, “Not this time.” This time we want to talk about the crumbling schools that are stealing the future of black children and white children and Asian children and Hispanic children and Native American children. This time we want to reject the cynicism that tells us that these kids can’t learn; that those kids who don’t look like us are somebody else’s problem. The children of America are not those kids, they are our kids, and we will not let them fall behind in a 21st century economy. Not this time.

This time we want to talk about how the lines in the Emergency Room are filled with whites and blacks and Hispanics who do not have health care; who don’t have the power on their own to overcome the special interests in Washington, but who can take them on if we do it together.

This time we want to talk about the shuttered mills that once provided a decent life for men and women of every race, and the homes for sale that once belonged to Americans from every religion, every region, every walk of life. This time we want to talk about the fact that the real problem is not that someone who doesn’t look like you might take your job; it’s that the corporation you work for will ship it overseas for nothing more than a profit.

This time we want to talk about the men and women of every color and creed who serve together, and fight together, and bleed together under the same proud flag. We want to talk about how to bring them home from a war that never should’ve been authorized and never should’ve been waged, and we want to talk about how we’ll show our patriotism by caring for them, and their families, and giving them the benefits they have earned.

I would not be running for President if I didn’t believe with all my heart that this is what the vast majority of Americans want for this country. This union may never be perfect, but generation after generation has shown that it can always be perfected.”

–Barack Obama speech on race, Philadelphia, March 18, 2008

Go read the transcript at the New York Times if nothing else.


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In my travels through Interweb-based dating, there’s someone I’ve gotten to know quite well: Me. Completing the cursory “profile” forms on the usual list of suspect dating sites means that I can dig deep inside myself and pull out all the raw and bitter truths about myself, which usually leads to…an incredibly boring profile!

So I ask you, no, I beg you, to please help me revise and construct a profile, an “About Me,” that women will find so fascinating that can’t help but click for more information.

Let’s face it, dating is difficult enough, but I need some help attracting women who are confident, independent, happy with themselves, and who conceptually know what kind of guy they’d really like to be with (and that they’re actually ready to be in a relationship with said man).  So here goes my initial effort in creating my profile information.

Please read and digest the content. All critiques and edits appreciated (and expected!)…

1) The one thing I’m most passionate about: Breathing. I mean, I really love life. From the moment my feet hit the floor in the morning until sleep fogs my mind at night I do my best to live fully, intentionally and to also have a modicum of fun each and every day.


2) The three things which I’m most thankful for: My two kids, my health, my sense of humor


3) The most influential person in my life has been: My high school band director (yeah, I was a band geek). So this teacher was a mentor to many kids. But he set expectations and expected you to live up to them. He looked to his student leaders to always do their best and we worked hard never to let him down.


4) My friends describe me as: Loyal, laugh out loud funny, intelligent, and highly flexible to the moment in question.


5) Three of my best life-skills are: Parenting, diplomacy (comes with the job), ability to either take control of situations or just go with the flow when needed.


6) The most important thing I’m looking for in a woman is: Someone who is secure in who she is.


7) The first thing you’ll probably notice about me when you meet me: My sincerity


8) I typically spend my leisure time: Counting my millions. Reading. Writing. Going to movies. Listening to music of all kinds.


9) The things I can’t live without are: Music, coffee, hot showers, jeans, my bike


10) The last book I read and enjoyed: Peace Like A River. A great first novel from a Minnesota author.


11) One thing that only my best friends know about me is: I offer the perfect mix of intelligence, wit and common sense.

Okay, bring it on. I want to hear the good, the bad and the ugly (because it’s essential that I avoid the ugly when this profile finally gets posted).  Don’t hold back now. Seriously. All suggestions to edit and improve this information will receive heavy consideration.


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